Sunday, 27 May 2012

Reasons She Is Probably Going To Cheat On You

Women and men are very different when it comes to dealing with relationships. When a man cheats he usually does it mostly for the pleasure of a one night stand and is usually purely physical. Women on the other hand are emotional creatures. If she cheats then there is probably an emotional connection to her lover or he simply provides something you don't. The key to keeping your woman faithful is keeping her happy in almost all aspects of her life. But I will talk about this in later posts.




Right now let me talk about some of the most common reasons women cheat.


  • She wants someone to talk to: The reason you are in a relationship with her in the first place is because she felt an emotional connection with you. You probably created this connection early on in the relationship and that's what attracted her to you. She felt that you were someone she could talk to about anything and you would be the one she can confide in if she was ever feeling down. But as the relationship progressed you became more distant and due to various factors e.g. work, you haven't found the time to talk and have those deep conversations. Sooner or later someone will come along who will listen to her and chances her she will cheat on you with him.
  • She is looking for excitement: Everyone needs some excitement in their lives. It helps break the monotonous nature of the daily routine that most of us probably go through. When a woman (or man) begins to feel the routine syndrome kicking in, they start to get bored with their lives and end up seeking excitement elsewhere. Most women cheat because of the adrenaline rush it gives them.
  • She has a low self esteem: In the early stages of the relationship you couldn't keep your hands off her, you made her feel sexy and wanted. Now you probably don't get as physical as you used to. You no longer call her beautiful. This type of thing makes her lose confidence in herself. Every woman wants to feel beautiful, sexy and wanted. It's what keep them going. One woman I talked to said this.
 " I felt like my husband didn't want me any more. I didn't feel sexy and I was at a low point in my life. Then someone came and made me feel sexy again and I couldn't resist him. "
  • Sexual Dissatisfaction: If you do not have sex regularly, the relationship is bound to fall apart. We are sexual beings and whether we like to admit it or not, sex is a natural part of our lives. If you are not giving her sex, you shouldn't be surprised if she goes and looks for it somewhere else.  You should not ignore her sexual needs otherwise you should be prepared to deal with the repercussions. I know there are times when you might be  genuinely tired or stressed but at least make an effort. 
Now don't get me wrong. There is absolutely no excuse for someone to cheat. If the woman is feeling any of the things I have mentioned above she should talk to her partner about it and try to work things out. It helps avoid a lot of tears and heartbreak in future.



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